OK. I started seeing this guy about 2 months ago. All I can say about him is "What a sweetheart!" His personality and sense of humor are so unique. We have great times when we go out together, but he works so much that we only see each other a couple times a week. We had 2 small disputes last week though. I was a little jealous because he went to a casino with a good friend of ours, and I'm only 20...not old enough to go with them. I pretty much went off on him about how he doesn't spend enough time with me. I felt really bad after that. I know he meant no harm. After this, about 3 days later, he mentioned that he might go to a "gentlemen's club" with his guy friends. Personally, I have high morals, and got very offended when he said this. I told him that I didn't know if I could go on seeing him if he did that. Once again, I feel terrible. I did a lot of thinking, and came to realize that if he wants to do that sort of thing, I can live with it. I don't agree with it though. I do not want to judge him, which I was starting to do. I realize that what he and I have should not be at jeopardy for him going to a place like that. I do trust him, and that is what matters. I can't expect everything to be perfect. He has more positives than negatives in my book. So, I told him that I wanted to work things out, and he said that we have our differences, and he doesn't want to hurt me. So, he pretty much broke up with me and said we just need some time alone. He said he hated to end it, but maybe we'd get back together. He said he really does not know what he wants and he was thinking about me all day. I cried a little, but for some reason I am not torn apart...just confused. I trust that whatever is meant to be will be. I know we will still see each other a lot because his best friend and my best friend are dating and living together. He and I ended on good terms. He still wants to go places with me. I just want to be his girlfriend so badly!AHHH! You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click hereScroll all the way down to read replies.Show all stories by Author: 16799 ( Click here )
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