|Date: 12/14/2009 4:50:00 PM From Authorid: 48250 Been subjected to those behaviors many times..it's no fun now I "pretend" I don't "hear" these people when they start emotional and mental wars and manipulative head game-playing...zero tolerance for this type of unhealthy behavior...Thanks for sharing, it's great to see you Diana...xoxo...T/C|
|Date: 12/14/2009 5:03:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 51393 Thank you TC nice to see u again ((((((hugs)))))|
|Date: 12/14/2009 5:11:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 51393 I meant KY lol and meant take care lol|
Date: 12/14/2009 6:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 51393
That's terrible AO a user for sure no doubt.I had experienced with someone trying to manipulate me as well to buy into their spat and here i was watching the boyfriend and girfriend fighting about her dating another guy so she can have her boots and perfume.Here i go feeling bad that i see it happening and offered her that i will buy the boots for her.What urks me with this girl the boots she wanted was the same exact pair and 2 of a pair and it cost me almost 400 dollars for the both of them.|
The same day she stole at least a hundred dollars worth of quarters into my jar.I knew then that wa sthe end of my kindness i will stop and i meant stop seeing everyone i knew whome i felt has used me and kept myself here at home.I was done and that was it.
You know what these thieves is what i truly call these people.When they do such thing it will comes back to them ten fold and more.You do NOT take anything from anyone and get away with it.God has its way to show you that karma do exist do not do unto other if you dont want others to do unto you.I believed in doing the right thing for someone and if i feel as if this person will not turn out right for me after a while my patient wores out thin and when i turn my back around i will never turn around again.
I forgive and forgive so much to so many has done to me and thinking someday time will come their pay back will come.God do not sleep he sees you whatever you do to others.Now i thank God doors has opened for me and i pray this door will stay lit and will not have anyone or anything gets in the way. As the door closes in my past now the door has opened for me in the present.
I thank God for everything and i pray for everyone for their safety and please be weary whom you hang around with people can be so devious just please watched out for everything. Much love to all and god Bless....
Date: 12/14/2009 6:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 62158
Yeah I just read this on the front page of Yahoo. Its funny that now that i think about it, I know alot of people that utilize most of these things on a daily basis. Guess Ill just have to steer clear.|
|Date: 12/14/2009 8:45:00 PM From Authorid: 15157 Sad but true.|
|Date: 12/14/2009 8:51:00 PM From Authorid: 63400 Thanks its good to have a defense. and however the truth is not good to know.a manipulater has much more of an interest than someone already being manipulated.the ability to manipulate others gives one the ability to really love themselves truly and what they do.especially because its a lie they love it.my fear is that someone who is just innocent and trying to protect themselves will use this advice to their own death in defense.can you blame them? i would do it too that is be wrong with a purpose if its right.remember if god cant teach the humans to be civil in the way he sees it.He can always inflict diseases and ailments and old age upon them. otherwise we have to claim these things just happen and we dont know why..but we do.in my eyes there is no satified answer to this delema for a right to truly have the ability to a defense and a protection from mental or physical distress has everything to do with who your not.and nothing to do with who you are. This was relieving to read though thanks for caring.|
|Date: 12/14/2009 10:33:00 PM From Authorid: 55967 It seems to me from past experience and the wording of these categories that using guilt and bullying are very similar. I have someone in my life who has clearly used guilt on me and others, but also can come across as a bully. It seems that those who bully will sometimes resort to guilt when they know that outright bullying won't work. Thanks for the info. Great post.|
|Date: 12/15/2009 7:20:00 AM From Authorid: 22852 @}~~ These are so true, when my husband tries then I just give him "the look" I will never understand why people do these things and it always ticks me off when they do. Good Post.|
Date: 12/15/2009 7:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 49101
So that's why my room mate always gets his way. :/ |
I have livingroom full of his/thier trash, tools, air compressors... His desk is set up in my dinning room, he's taken over my storage shed and spare bedroom... I only agreed to rent them ONE BEDROOM! Not a whole house!
|Date: 12/15/2009 7:22:00 AM From Authorid: 49101 But when I say something, I am the bad guy.|
Date: 12/15/2009 10:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 54444
Know who you are|
believe who your are
be who you are
and these tricks will never work on you. People who manipulate others are psychic blackmailers, and you owe them no respect at all.
|Date: 12/15/2009 11:29:00 AM From Authorid: 11097 Great post I agree with a lot of what others have said and think the best defense is to protect yourself from these people and know how they work. Learn to say no and stand up for yourself. Learn to not care what they say or do. Learn to firm in your answers and not give in to the demand of attention and the thankless million things you will do for these people. Thanks for being a caring and strong person Love and Light,|
Date: 12/15/2009 2:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 51393
Hello everyone i feel we all come from one time or another will go through such life.We just need to put our foot down and not give others such as"manipulators" a chance to play us any other way.|
Mrs. K I hope you will do just that put your foot down and just keep them out of your life.It seems as if they have taken your heart and soul into this mess just having these people in your home.Your home is your castle and you need to do what is right for your own sake.I hope and pray you will be at eased when you can keep out these people out of your life.
AO sometimes we have to let it out for people to know how we feel when we go through such experienced in our lives.You never ask for these things to happen it just did and somehow by dealing with manipulators you tend to find a way to stand your ground.I know its hard but there will be time you need to stand your ground for your own sake.Keep them out of your life and find other things to do and deal with good hearted people around you.
I learned my lesson well when i dealt with user who always tries to make me look like a bad guy.Tell your self they do not exist and eventually your heart and mind will get stronger and will come to the point they will go away.
((((((((hugstoutightly)))))))) be strong dear friend much love and God Bless....
|Date: 12/16/2009 6:31:00 AM From Authorid: 2030 No one gets manipulated unless they let themselves be.|
|Date: 12/16/2009 12:26:00 PM From Authorid: 61897 Agrees with BCAR.|
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