'Moving on' from a relationship.   Author:  49546  Category:(Discussion) Created:(7/23/2008 9:34:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (182 times) I hope for this to be my last post about this topic in my life. I have written several, seeking advice, or just feedback/perspectives on the situation I 'was' in. I have actually decided a while ago, what I wanted to do. I had a small window of "hope" brought upon to me a few weeks ago (Written in my previous posts) and "he" never took it. I guess the situation that he is in, even telling me the truth, giving me the reason for a six month dissapearance, he can't even tell me that. What sort of 'soulmate' is this. To give an overview in a nutshell. I fell in love, was happy, any ups, many downs, money issues, legal issues (regarding him), and I stupidly stood by his side, when he was continuously making mistakes. I'd thought, I stood by him, he will learn, he would want to change, he would want to better himself, for me. I guess I was wrong. How can someone dissapear, time and time again, and expect me to still wait? I waited 3 months before. I waited 2 months before, and now recently waited 6 months. Yes, how foolish and stupid I "was". Waited, and again I'm waiting for a call, a reason. I'm so ready to say it. I'm done waiting! I'm done waiting just to get dissapointed again. I'm done waiting for someone who does nothing to change. I'm done waiting for someone who keeps breaking the law. I'm done waiting for someone who keeps draining me. Financially, emotionally. I'm done being naive and foolish and plain stupid with "love". So yes, I am ready, to "move on". To think 3 years, maybe we've really been together...6 months, the rest was continuously him somewhere else. Why was I so stupid to keep waiting? So really, it should be easy to move on from this relationship. I'm not ready (at all) to "start seeing others". I really felt, I really thought he was "the one". Like I said, I guess in the future, I will no longer be so naive. I have learnt my lesson. The constant lies, the dissapearances, the nothingness. And on top of it, I foolishly lent him a fair amount of money throughout those times. And because I was foolish, I'm out about 2K, which I know I will never get back. A broken heart, and a burnt pocket. I guess this is what people call "life lessons". Moving on, Moving on. USM - Thanks for the feedback you've given me throughout the year about this issue. I'm finally listening to you all, moving on! =) You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author:  49546 ( Click here ) Spring is coming