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Date: 10/14/2002 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 56200
You know I have learned not to get in the middle of people who do not get along. You will get one or the other mad at you. My mother and sister do not get along. When I was younger and lived close to them they just drove me crazy. Now I live 2,000 mi. away and I only have to deal with it on the phone or when I visit which isn't very often. They usually visit me, and not together. Hope things work out. You can try to keep the peace but if they really don't like each other there isn't much that you can do. Good Luck! Snipit ![]() |
Date: 10/14/2002 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
sometimes it is best not to get in the middle. but i know how you feel. i am a rather soft person too and i am the type who likes everyone to get along. your sister-in-law was probably very sensitive because of her hormones. and if she has had miscarriages before...than the fear of that happening again would put her on edge. i know how that feels. and i know sometimes parents don't like to listen to their kids...but you sound like someone who has a very good head on their shoulders. my mother-in-law and i DO NOT get along at all...but i would never keep my son from her. hopefully your sister-in-law will not keep him from you guys either. just explain to your mom that you are not on drugs, but you dont like to hear all of these things that she says about your sister-in-law. she knows what it is like to be pregnant. i am sure her nerves were on edge too :)alot of woman react without thinking when they are pregnant. i was aweful :) just ask monte. LOL. anyway, hopefully your mother will see that you are just trying to keep peace in the family. and i hope she doesn't hold this grudge for too long. best of luck to you. ![]() |
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Date: 10/14/2002 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 15279
First of all I wanted to help you see one thing. You can't change this argument, it has to fizzle on it;s own. Go see your nephew,let your sister in law know you're on her side, and that you think that this should be talked out and let go. As for you, you believe in you..if they don't have the same beliefs thats okay. Just don't let their negativity affect you. Find an older adult you can trust to understand your feelings and respect them. I tryuly believe it will be okay. Ask your mom something though and I'll tell you why in a minute. Ask her if the argument is so worth winning that she's wiling to not see her grandchild and be bitter forever. My mom believes she is right and we haven't talked in 10 years. I have two kids who've never met her, only because she can't get over it, and grow up. Sometimes life isn't worth arguing over. Hugs to you dear! ~crystal~ ![]() |
Date: 10/20/2002 8:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 49889
First, Im very glad that you stand up for what you believe in; I know how hard it is to go against one's parents. Second, I hate to say this, but I think it might be better if your mother doesnt see your nephew, considering she's racist and all that-maybe you should talk to your sister in law and tell her how you feel about losing your nephew. Im sure she'll understand how much you love him since she loves him too and will not want to take him away from YOU. Just my advice! ![]() |
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