Date: 10/13/2002 5:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
anyone flirting with you could be a nice compliment(atleast when you get older) if you thinkthe flirting being done is more then just funful flirting and that hte person is looking like they want more of romantic intentions just let them know that you are flattered but not interested  |
Date: 10/13/2002 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 56410
Ask her before, after, or at break or lunch, passing period, etc... Life doesn't start and stop in cLaSS ya know! and I'd think the friend of the guy was hitting on me.  |
Date: 10/13/2002 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 56057
Tiger Lily, If it was me I would talk to him. I know that you will get butterflies and you might be a little nervous but I would talk to him. I'm sure if you just start a conversation you would eventually get the feeling if he liked you or not. It is cool to ask your friend and stuff but she won't really know what he is like or more importantly if he likes you. Just go for it. Life is way to short to sit back anc wait. And about his friend. You need to be honest and open with him. The next time he tries to hit on you, just tell him look, I think you are funny and nice but I actually like someone else at the moment. As long as you be nice and do it gently he will be ok. And besides he might know if his mate is interested in you as well!!! Take care, Big Bear Hugs.......  |
Date: 10/13/2002 7:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 60507
Well it sounds like you really like this guy and if you ask me, i say that if his friend is hitting on you, well I think you should try going out with him. I mean, what if hes even better than the guy you like? Well, hope this sorta helped. Fire Flyer  |
Date: 10/13/2002 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
Well, as for the friend of the guy who is hitting on you,you could tell him that you would love to be a very good friend to him..But as far as a romantic relationship you could tell him that you hope that it is in the making with another guy...But right now you haven't let the other guy know your feelings....If he is a really close friend to this other guy then he will say something about it to him and maybe just maybe he will get the idea..  |
Date: 10/13/2002 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
well, the best advice i can give you would be to talk to this guy. i'm not saying to go up to him and say "hey, guess what. i am totally in love with you". but just strike up a conversation with him. get talking to him sometime. become friendly with him. then you will be able to see how he is around you. see if he acts like he likes you or not. then, one day just ask him if he would like to go out with you sometime. trust me, i know how hard it is to talk to someone that you have so many feelings for. but if you never talk to him...you will never know how he feels. as for his friend, just don't think anything of it. if he is plain out hitting on you, you can tell him that you think he is a nice person, but you don't like him in that way. or tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he hits on you like that. i hope everything works out for you.  |
55121 Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/13/2002 5:17:00 PM)