Date: 7/26/2002 9:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
You must really like her to let it bother you this much. Just ask her and get it over with. Good luck!  |
Date: 7/26/2002 9:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
The worst she can do is say no. Right?  |
Date: 7/26/2002 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 55330
awww thats cute! hehe u look 4 girls @ church, huh?! -net-  |
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Date: 7/26/2002 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 59248
well, here's my two Cents. Ok, I wouldn't like to really date anyone from my church because you Know what they believe, and religious conversations are pretty neat (for me anyways) and there's probably a fear of insulting each other, since you each know what the other is SUPPOSED to believe. Another thing, I faced serious Fears of Rejection as well, and as you can find in my long post: "Friends to more than such..." (read that one) most people said that fear of rejection is no reason not to ask someone, and I asked a gal out before I even knew of USM, and even though I got shot down, I felt better just knowing that I finally managed to get up the Courage to do such a thing!! so go for it, and if you get shot down, you at least know that you got over a fear, a wonderful personal accomplishment -Contena -Message me to discuss anything further. |
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Date: 7/26/2002 10:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 59833
Try dating someone Out of church. Maybe This girl you are wanting to ask out isnt the right one anyways |
Date: 7/27/2002 5:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 58051
get over it and just ask someone  |
Date: 7/27/2002 1:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 59876
hi there,
i think church is the perfect place to meet a girl. what would be better, a bar? a rave? by meeting a girl at church, chances are you will have alot in common and there would be less stife in your relationship if it worked out because you wouldn't have big separating issues between you. differences in religion, race, morals, allthese things have been proven to add additional stress to relationships and marriages. nobody could say what will work out and what won't and you won't know unless you try. please try sweetie, take that step. when my husband and i were introduced to each other we were both so shy that our eyes didn't meet. now we have been together for 11 years and have a son. if she did say no, it would hurt. yes, your ears will burn. but, a year from now that person could be a distant memory to where your life is at that point. try it. :)  |
Date: 3/11/2003 8:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
It's just nerves..your back into the dating world so of course your going to be nervous..just go up to her and ask.  |