Date: 12/7/2001 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
Hmmm I don't mean to be nosy but what kind of stuff are you doing that makes people go running to your mom and dad? I say stick it out and soon enough you'll be old enough to move away..but I guarentee you someday you will miss that small town feeling (even the nosy neighbors) *hugs*  |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
I think it is a Parents Unwritten Law to keep each other informed on the kids behavior.. :) Actually it is better that way because it shows people do CARE...  |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 47266
ya right, oh i'll miss them SOOOO much! (((yea right))) |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 47870
They are bored with their own lives that is why people get involved in others business...... Midnight Momma |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 47266
ya thats probably true midnight momma
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 43807
i know what u mean i come from a town with 210 people in it and there were 7 kids in my graduating class.  |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
You didn't answer my question Heartbroken. What are you doing that makes people go running to your mom and dad? *hugs* |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 47870
I have 2 kids myself and the only time anyone tells me what they are doing is when it is bad. And they always say while I was setting drinking my coffee(bored) Midnight Momma |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 28193
I agree with Midnight Momma. Also, I think that people think that other people's lives are so much more interesting, and exciting, and it takes their minds off of their own problems, to focus in on someone else.~Golden Taxi.
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 47266
sorry aunt be: people used to see me w/ my 16-year-old boyfriend that i used to have and since im 13 and all, and my mom and dad always forbidded me to see him, the nosy people werent much of a help when they saw me and told my mom and dad. then someone saw me $moking at a dance club w/ my friends but i'd like to get a little privacy here ya know!!!!! i dont want people telling my mom and dad EVERY freaking thing i do on this earth! so they never leave me alone! |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
I understand perfectly heartbroken. That is a tough situation to be in and I know how important privacy is for teens. Maybe if you earn your parents trust they might lighten up a little. I personally believe that when you trust your child they are more apt to live up to it. and by the way...I also think that if you are a responsible 13 year old there is nothing wrong with you dating a 16 year old..but..Don't let me catch you smoking. *glare* *hugs* |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
I know where your at.... small towns are netorious for rumors. my school counsilor says "if you dont hear a rumor by noon, go and start one" i do agree, everybody is nosey, but it is something that you have to look past.... its life of the small towns. love ya tonz. buffy771  |
Date: 12/7/2001 10:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
im so sorry..what i do when people dont min their business adn all up in mine is fight them...whata solution right! LOL..well ususally people that ar ein my business are preps from DPJH and they are looking for a good butt kicking and always get it...n e wayz....im really sorry..i used to live in a town like that, everywhere i went eeryone knew everyone..it scared me!! LMBO!!  |
Date: 12/7/2001 10:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
I promise you'll understand when you are older.  |
Date: 12/8/2001 12:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 44326
one of the things that I hate the most is those old geezers watching you eat every little second!! they look at you as if you they are secretly saying: "You don't belong here!!"  |
Date: 12/8/2001 1:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 42945
Listen Heartbroken, hold ur head up high and look straight ahead when u walk down the street, and if anyone stares at u like as in sticky/beak stares then just look them straight in the eye and see who turns away first and it wont be u will it????????? when u are older u will appreciate that ur family do care for u okkkkkkkkkk Cheers Zeplin42  |
Date: 12/8/2001 9:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 47235
How old are you? I know in my neighborhood when I see a kid doing something that they should not do, I let them know. I'm not being mean or nosy, I'm simply looking out. I would want for someone to do this for my kids too. 'Razzles'  |
Date: 12/8/2001 9:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 39321
I use to live in a town like yours. Everyone knew my mom and told her everything I did. I could not get away with anything. But I think in some ways that is good and bad. At the time it was bad. I felt eyes watching me all the time.  |
Date: 12/8/2001 11:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 39887
I live in a small town to and I know what you mean. Are you doing something wrong thats getting your neighbors involved. I was always thankful when people told me things about my kids, it was a matter of prevention and intervention. Other people whom seenm nosy to you could actually care about you and your parents. You need to remember this, you have only one reputation and thats either good or bad and IT WILL FOLLOW YOU THROUGH LIFE!! You may think you don't care now but you will. I have four children and all four put me through a different kind of hell. I cared enough to fight back and keep my position as a mother. Now, they are grown and they have thanked me many times over. Until you have children, you will never know the depth of that love. I wish I had parents to love, I only have memories,. I had bad times and good times with my mother to but now that she's gone, only the good memories live in my heart. I have a thought for you to ponder," However time or cirumstance may come betwwen a mother and her child, their lives are interwoven forever."  |
