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Date: 12/7/2001 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 30996
Hey Becky, I'm very sorry to hear this. Dont worry and get mad at yourself, we all make mistakes, and have accidents. Think of it this way, your safe now, and thank God nothing really bad happend to you. Material things are replacable, human lives are not. Well Thats atleast what they told me when our house burned down, pretty hard to accept, but it's true. HUGS TO YA!  |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
ya, i was in a car wreck a few months ago.. and after it happened, i remember thinking 'if only i met my mom on time.. if only i got out of class on time..if only...bla bla' so i know that is normal.. i think that's just a process.. i mean, accept the fact that the accident happened.. things happen for a reason.. and just get over that.. and .. well as far as it not wanting to happen.. well duh lmao who wants to get in a wreck?!? i know i didnt because everytime im the passenger, im a nervous wreck.. i always think the car in front of us wont see us and come into our lane and the crash will happen all over agian.. its kinda scary  |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 40012
Becky, here's what happened to me twelve years ago August 18. We, had finished work late a decided to take my room mate out, he was getting married in a couple of weeks but didn't want a bachelor party, so a night on the town was the very least we could do. We went down to Austin and partied pretty hard for a couple of hours and decided to head back home. We were playing it really smart, we had a designated driver and a good car so we were all set. Well on the way home the driver fell asleep and the bachelor was ejected from the car, I was partially ejected, and both other passengers we cut up pretty bad. The driver, ironically was fine. They couldn't find the bachelor for a few minutes...the details are sketchy as I was both intoxicated and losing blood very quickly, but they finally found him...he had been pinned under the car and was killed instantly. I spent four days in the hospital and received a generous supply of someone's blood, four pints I was told and when the time finally came to go home I had to get in a car...I became ghostly white, and to this day still have trouble talking about that night. You are completely normal. It will get better, It just takes time, I don't know how much time, but it does get easier. John  |
| Date: 12/7/2001 8:35:00 PM From Authorid: 46050 Post traumatic stress syndrome...try to relax before it eats you up...go out and drive again right away!!! Good Luck and <<hugs>>NKA and T.M |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16845
Thanks guys....NKA I can't drive again I don't have a car.....mine won't run without some serious body work....:(  |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
Yo Becky girl, I hadn't heard anything about this ...I am so very sorry..And I hope that you are soon all better..Yep, there's that little word again (IF). Want it just drive ya crazy? We all go back to it when ever something like this happens and it does no good, none at all. What happened happened, no changing that now. You just rest up and get to feeling better...  |
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Date: 12/7/2001 8:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16845
I know nan, there's nothing I can do to change the past but god......Argh......I can just feel it happening over and over again......maybe I just need some time....I don't know....my parents keep telling me to quit being so hard on myself it could have been alot worse someone could have wound up seriously hurt or dead...and so on...but it's hard.... |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 6358
I had this happen to me.....I was in an accident and kept having flashbacks......it's called Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.....it will fade over time......hope you get back on your feet soon! :)  |
Date: 12/7/2001 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
It's perfectly normal, don't worry. I keep thinking about the crash I was in, and that was over 2 years ago. It was a major thing in your life, so you will dwell on it.  |
| Date: 12/7/2001 8:52:00 PM From Authorid: 47872 I think you just need time.come on,this could turn into something ok in the long run!L.O.L!!hang in there. |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 36687
Awwww Poor Becky Sis, I can see what your saying. I mean I know you feel really bad and really stupid, but you have to remember we all make mistakes. Yea you totalled your car I'm sorry, but the good thing is, is that noone was hurt. I'm sorry beck. Its gonna take a while for you to recover. It kinda came as a shock to you so I know its gotta be hard. Anywayz *hugz to you* Hope you feel well soon! Love,  |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...glad to hear that you're in good shape other than the sore neck! Isn't it amazing how you always have the plus or minus five second feeling? Hoping you feel fine real soon and you get back on the road quick too! Just remember that this was an accident and you shouldn't start driving on the shoulder of the road with your blinkers on because you're all nervous. Am I going on and on? Just happy to hear you're OK!  |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16845
*GASP* A serious reply from hekler!!!!!! *Faints* |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...HEY! I have a serious side too. Unfortunately, when I show it, people hit it. Just practising damage control most of the time. |
Date: 12/7/2001 9:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 42792
Hey Becky...I'm on my id now...I hope that you will be able to get past this...it wasn't your fault that's why it's an accident and not a purpose...keep your head up!!!!NKA  |
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Date: 12/7/2001 9:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16845
LMAO nka how about slightly down the only unpainful position it can be in. lol |
Date: 12/8/2001 1:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 25046
After a year, I still feel that way at times. It is scary. I'm glad you were alright though.  |
Date: 12/8/2001 5:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 25856
Yea, it's very normal to feel this way, Becky. In fact, I'd be surprised if you weren't digging yourself with regrets---it's what humans do. (those with hearts, anyway) And you're a *very* sweet person, so I think this will be harder on you than normally. Anyway, as you said, it hasn't even been two days. You're going to need time to adjust, and that could take awhile. But just be thankful that you're alive. If you could survive the crash, you can definetely survive having regrets. Love,  |
Date: 12/8/2001 7:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
Becky I unnderstand where you are coming from because I had a serious accident which totaled my car too. It was on Oct.15. I had to be taken by helicopter, had a broken arm, staples in my head, a torn rotator cuff and another kind of tear on my shoulder, and my other arm sustained trauma and I could not even lift my arm. Soo all the while in the hospital people had to feed me, because I had no use of either arm. Through physical therapy, I now have use of my one arm ' but I am facing surgery on my other shoulder. So you see I can empathise with you. It is scary to know that it could have been worse. Just thank God you did not lose your life, and try to occupy your mind with other thoughts to take your mind off of things. Sometimes though , I think that Doctors need to realize people go through mental trauma even after they have healed physically,and recommend counceling if they can't get past the trauma of reliving the accident. God bless. Jasmine  |
Date: 12/8/2001 9:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 29775
I was in an accident a couple years ago. I had to borrow my brother's car cause mine was in the shop. I was coming home from work and hit a deer. Upon hitting the deer i hit the brakes and the deer went under the car and I went over top of it. I drove his car to the next exit which was about 50 feet away. I got out and looked at the damage and just started crying thinking my brother is going to kill me. I ripped the entire front of his car off. The hood was curled up, no grill, no headlight on the one side, the fender was curled in, I had blood running down the windshield. I didn't know what to do. I drove the car back to my work not realizing there was no lights or taillights. I pulled in and my co-worker tried getting me out of the car, but I refused to get out. I had a death grip on the steering wheel and was sitting there hypervenilating. He called my brother and told him that I hit a deer and my brother actually said it was better that I hit a deer than another car. He said he would come and get me. He got to my job and jumped out of the truck saying he was going to kill me, then started laughing. He had me drive the car home, but followed close behind since there were no lights. To this day everytime I see a deer on the road I panic. It is like I have flashbacks of that night.  |
Date: 12/8/2001 9:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 38849
*hugs Becky* Hey, this is normal. Whenever we do something bad, that either we know, or believe is our fault. We question everything, from all the what if questions, to why didn't I questions... So, yeah this is normal. Now quit beating yourself up, get the new car and get back out there! :) LOL --  |
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Date: 12/8/2001 10:04:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16845
so you mean the whiplash would feel better if I would quit smacking myself.....Gosh why didn't I think of that!!!!!!! LOL! no really I am feeling a bit better *physically* today....so that's a plus, I'm still trying to get over heklers serious reply though. lol *Sigh* I'm thinking once I get that ticket off my refrigeratior and taken care of that will help also....I'm doing that this weekend. cause gosh darn it! why pay more and get more points off my license if I don't have too....my point exactly. lol |
Date: 12/8/2001 1:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 43948
you're probably still in shock... I know I would be - MoreThanJake  |
| Date: 12/8/2001 8:56:00 PM From Authorid: 48011 This is so normal! I know exactly what you are going through. A month ago I was in a car acciden and I had just gotten my license. I felt so guilty afterwards. I wasn't alone in my car though I had 4 of my good friends in the car with me. We were lucky we didn't roll the car and get seriously injured. What you are going through is the same thing that happened to me. You feel like what if I had done this or this, would've I still got into this?? I had whiplash too and I know it's not fun at all! Good luck with your recovery and don't worry it all gets better! icegoddess_ |
Date: 8/12/2002 12:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
You're just probably still in shock from what happenened  |
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