Date: 10/14/2001 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
i have the SAME problem.. its because i dont take myself serious.. thats all -telsha  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 15997
i have the same problem its not that i find it hard accepting compliments it just that i dont know what i should say after i get one. i dont know i guess i'm weird  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Yep, especially if it's about my looks...LOL I always find compliments awkward..*Sigh*  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 27845
I always find it hard to accept compliments. Espesially if it's someone complimenting me on how I look. Your not the only one :)  |
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Date: 10/14/2001 10:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36454
I hope not Looney Girl!! Then that would mean that I am weird too! :D ...I am glad to know that I am not alone in this..Charlie Girl |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 28336
heck yeah.....i am so not good with compliaments....they make me so nervous i can't breathe.......  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 20559
I really do find it hard to accept compliments abouit anything and it is because I have a very low opinion of myself so I assume thast others have the same  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Yo CharlieGirl, Yep...I don't like being complimented...for so many reasons that will no doubt have me paying some shrink $100 an hour to sort out *smile*...but on the whole I prefer to be humble...thats why I don't like compliments. Peace,  |
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Date: 10/14/2001 10:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36454
Sometimes saying thank you just doesn't seem to be enough does it? Charlie Girl |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
i dont take compliments well .... especially about my appearance. No matter how many i get i still find it a really awkward moment ......  |
Date: 10/14/2001 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 13546
I have the same problem you do !!! Sometimes, I just don't know how to accept compliments. It is very awkward sometimes, but I smile, thank the person and want to say more, but the words do not always come out!!! :) *hugglies* thanks for posting this!  |
Date: 10/15/2001 12:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 44404
it seems like everytime I receive a compliment I feel like I am honor bound to make sure I am worthy of it and I stress myself out so much over it that I eventually do something stupid almost as if I am trying to prove that I wasn't worth the compliment. Maybe I was? Anyway, I just kind of ignore most compliments know and I think that for the most part people are being polite when they do unless it is someone who has gained my respect over many years of enduring my nonsence. For those people I just say, "Thanks."  |
Date: 10/15/2001 12:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 18516
I have a hard time accepting compliments about how I look..mainly becuz I have low self esteem and I don't like what I look like. So when someone says I'm pretty..I think they are just saying that to be nice. (I know..I'm stupid..lol)  |
Date: 10/15/2001 12:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
I get a little uncomfortable when someone compliments me. I feel like I should say something even nicer back. lol *hug*  |
Date: 10/15/2001 12:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 21714
I find it hard to accept them when I know they are giving them just to be nice and when I know it isnt true.... know what I mean? Take care,  |
Date: 10/15/2001 1:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 19384
I appreciate compliments, but I appreciate the people who compliment me more. I can usually tell whether they are sincere or not.  |
Date: 10/15/2001 2:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 30575
I feel flattered when someone compliments me, but I often feel a bit awkward. Line  |
Date: 10/15/2001 2:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 38474
They make me uncomfortable, I appreciate them. It is just a little awkward, I agree with ya on this. I do like gettting them just kinda make ya feel funny.............  |
Date: 10/15/2001 4:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 19382
I love compliments. I absolutely do. But I to, feel awkward when I receive them, and sometimes don't beleive them, despite the fact I really want to.  |
Date: 10/15/2001 4:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 18201
I'm horrible at accepting compliments...but even worse at accepting constructive criticism...  |
Date: 10/15/2001 4:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 33517
It is not just you. I have a problem receiving compliments. I don't know why. I guess that I dont' get very many and when I do, I don''t know how to re-act or respond. Good post.  |
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Date: 10/15/2001 5:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 44458
I can always accept compliments about my achievements or accomplishments, but I have a hard time with compliments about my looks. Reading other comments here, it looks like we aren't alone!! -Nee' |
Date: 10/15/2001 5:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 3125
If someone compliments me for something I have said or done without making a big issue out of it,then I can easily accept a compliment..But..If they put me forward and I am in the limelight, then no..I feel very awkward and uncomfortable.. In other words,I like being appreciated but I don't like being the star..  |
Date: 10/15/2001 6:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 24856
I accept compliments fairly well but get embarrassed if I become the center of attention. Am much happier working behind the scenes....  |
Date: 10/15/2001 6:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
I guess I do okay with it... I think it is really sweet of people giving compliments and I try to accept them graciously :)  |
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Date: 10/15/2001 10:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 42940
Try this: Say thank you, and if you feel like saying more then give them a compliment back. *** bad kitty *** |
Date: 10/15/2001 11:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 3538
Same problem here!!  |