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Should gays and lesbians be allowed to marry/have kids??

  Author: 33066  Category:(Debate) Created:(4/20/2001 8:09:00 PM)
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Well it seems to be the talk of our area right now so I was curious on here do ou all think that gays and lesbians should be allowed to have kids??? I think that gays and lesbians should be allowed to get married. They should not be stopped from getting married if they please, however, on the children issue I would say that they shouldnt be allowed to have kids.. It is ok to be gay or lesbian, but I dont think that kids should grow up in that kind of an environment. I believe that we were created so that man and woman can create children together, of course sometimes the unfortunate happens and adoption is nessecary. I dont think however that the couples should be allowed to adopt. I realize I will probably take some heat for this one but I am curious to what everyone else thinks about this issue. I in no way mean this to be an anti-same sex relationships thing... I have no objection to that. However I do have objections to allowing a kid to be raised in a home like that.... It could just create too many problems. I would think that the kid would grow up maybe thinking that thats the way its supposed to be, men and men or women and women are supposed to have kids. This would not be a good thing, I think that kids should be taught that men and women were created for each other, however if you feel inclined to be the other way then that is ok too, but growing up in that situation I dont think they would have that oppertunity... well I am open to any replies on this agreement or critisism on this.

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Date: 4/20/2001 8:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 3688    i absolutely believe they should be able to marry and have children...in fact i know of a few that do have children...and those kids....already know it's ok to love who they want to love and are the most understanding,accepting kids i've ever seen....there parents do not in any way push their beliefs onto them..as long as they are responsible caring people they should have all the same rights as anyone else!!!  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 24845    Wow, I feel hypicritacal,(?) On what side I feel like it would be ok, as long as they kept thier personal lives out of sight, but who does that in a average marriage? Then on the other hand I feel like I agree with you, It would be wrong seeing that the Great Creator created Men and Women for the reason of populating the earth, it's unnatural for them to have children, Yet, I don't want to judge them, or say they don't deserve to be parents, in some cases they may be great parents. Hard question, though good. And as far as your opinion goes, it's yours and I respect you for it. You go.
Angel2001
  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 8179    I think gay and lesbians should be allowed to get married why not??? Who is it hurting? But i think u might have a good point on them having kids, by them having children i think it is denying that child the right to diffrent role models like a mom and a dad, I know my mom has thaught me things tha t my mom has not it's just a mom thing and a dad thing, plus i would think it would be hard on a child to have to explain to there classmates why they have 2 mommies or 2 daddies,,,This is just one of my opinions,,On the other hand who is to say gays and lesbians can't raise children just as good as a hetrosexual couple. I guess i am mixed on this..  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 8179    I ment my dad has taught me things that my mom hasen't  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 24319    I think they should be able to on both things. If a Homosexual couple want to adopt a child, where that child would be loved as their own.. I think it should be okay... Peace and Love ~~Carrie~~  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 16612    I think marriage should be kept between a man and a woman.  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 19273    Of course they should be able to marry, and adopt kids. Just because their parents were gay doesn't mean the kid will turn out "strange" or "unnatural" (as if being gay is unnatural!) There is absolutely no problem with them either marrying or having kids, IMHO.  
Date: 4/20/2001 8:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 8428    married theres nothing wrong with it but children is def wrong.  
Date: 4/20/2001 9:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 32789    i think people should be free to do as they please. i do not have the right nor the authority to tell others whom they relate to nor how they relate to others. as far as me personally? i wouldn't let the government be a third party in any of my relationships ever again. meru
Date: 4/20/2001 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 16815    I will only say this as I would go on and not shut up about it for a while. I am gay and I feel that the answer to both the questions are YES!  
Date: 4/20/2001 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 11091    I see nothing wrong with same sex relationships, marriages, and families. Children learn it is acceptable to be yourself and love who you love. Most children now grow-up with only one parent in the household so they are already lacking a role model. Two parents are better than one regardless of gender. As long as the children are in a loving enviroment, there are no problems  
Date: 4/20/2001 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 13969    My opinion is this...all are created equal. I don't agree with gay/lesbian/bi...but I don't discriminate against them.  
Date: 4/20/2001 9:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 28801    I will take the 5th on this issue!
Date: 4/20/2001 9:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 30264    I have a few gay relatives and I dont think they
should be able to adopt children!!!!They can get married
if they want but shouldnt be able to force or spread gayness
on other kids not that they would all do that but
I know some of them would!!!!!Peace......
  
Date: 4/20/2001 9:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 19625    Well, I think they should be able to marry and live without ridicule, although I know this is not very likely... I also belive that they should be allowed to have kids... I saw a special on 20/20, about this, all of the kids seemed fine with the fact that their paernts were gay/lesbain, and they all said they would not trade one of their parents for a mom or dad... I belive that they should be allowed to adopt chilren as long as there is a motherly of fatherly figure also in thir lives... Luv,  
Date: 4/20/2001 10:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 12600    I think that marriage is "Holy Matrimony" ordained by God. Why would homosexuals want to participate in a ceremony that was specifically an arrangement with a Deity that obviously, biblically doesn't approve of their kind of relationship? As for having children...if they could have their own (as nature intended) with each other, then I would see nothing wrong with it:-). ~peace~  
Date: 4/20/2001 11:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 12600    I want to add that I meant no offense to those who cannot have children naturally by that last statement I made. Sorry if anyone is offended. ~peace~  
Date: 4/21/2001 4:37:00 AM  From Authorid: 32806    I am hetero and am uncomfortable when I see two men together but much less so with two women.It is a problem only in my head to do with prejudice.We need to raise ourselves above this so I say it is ok for them to get married and to adopt.They are just as able as a man/woman mix to raise children well.Consider that most have man/woman parents but there is a lot of bad people that have come from that background.Good question very relevent to modern day society hope USMers make it easier to make your own mind up lots of opinions here. Sagi10  
Date: 4/21/2001 4:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 32806    I would like to add that some say if we were all gay no procreation but to counter this there will always be man/woman. Sagi10  
Date: 4/21/2001 1:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 33959    yes because its there buisness and no one elses.Even if it is a sin in other religions still its between them and god.


velanie
Date: 4/21/2001 2:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 30228    That is horrible!!! Anyone should be able to have a child no matter what their sexual preference is!! Why deny someone of such a great life. You obviously do have some sort of a problem with gays and lesbians, otherwise you would think it's okay for them to have kids. Who says that men and women are SUPPOSED to be together? NO ONE!!! And furthermore, people do not LEARN how to be gay. They are born that way. I know b/c I am bisexual. I don't think anyone should be denied the right to have kids. It is not fair to tell someone they can't have something b/c of the way they are.
Date: 4/22/2001 7:30:00 AM  From Authorid: 10722    Absolutely NOT. Children need a mother and father figure in their life to grow up right, the way it was intended and meant to be.  
Date: 4/23/2001 1:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    I think that if gays and lesbians want to marry more power to them! Its not my place to judge them. As for having children I say that if they are a strong loving couple the child can do nothing but benefit from that..There are millions of single parent families out there, where one parent is not involved in the childs life...do we say that anyone with one leg should not have children? Or a blind person should not be a parent? As long as the child is taken care of..then I say go for it!! Ladyluck  
Date: 4/23/2001 1:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    Oh and as for mother and father figure..im sure that gay couples have brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers..aunts, uncles..friends..that would be more than happy to do boy things with a child or girl things ladyluck  
Date: 4/23/2001 3:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 27118    Some gay and lesbian couples would be much better loving parents than some straight couples. SPEEDRACER  
Date: 4/27/2001 3:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 28767    If you love each other go for it. Whatever works. Tiki the snow lemur  
Date: 4/27/2001 3:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 28767    If you love each other go for it. Whatever works. Tiki the snow lemur  
Date: 5/9/2001 11:52:00 AM  From Authorid: 35593    everyone should be allowed to be married. you can't control love and you can't control who you fall in love with so it's not fair to block anyone like that. as for children, i think everyone should be able to have them. it's their own choice. personally, i would love a child. but i don't think i would have one knowing what other kids and people would say to it about having 'two dads' or 'two moms'. society needs to change. and they need to change NOW.

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